Most people tend to give blowjobs before they ever have sex. A blowjob is probably one of the first sexual things one might do when one becomes sexually active.
Although blowjobs are common and constantly talked about, have you ever wondered what a blowjob is? You might think that a blowjob is just oral sex, but do you know the correct term for a blowjob?
During this feature, we will give you helpful tips for how to suck a dick for you and your partner. Oral sex is fantastic, so we know these tips are needed.
Let’s get started.
Part 1. What Is a Blowjob?
Blowjob, I know this term might sound like a job that consists of blowing. But a blowjob is just the opposite. The blowjob or fellatio is a sexual experience where you stimulate the penis using other “holes.” By sucking and licking the penis, you will stimulate all the best places.
The one who performs the blowjob will place the penis in their mouth and stimulate him until the climax. Blowjobs are often part of foreplay but can be perfect when you need quick relief.
A blowjob can also involve massaging the balls and sucking. The penis does not have to be the only body part you stimulate.
Part 2. How to Suck a Dick?
Before you can start sucking dick, you must know how to suck a penis correctly. Every guy is different and might different things, but these tips for sucking dick will improve your technique and blowjob skills immensely. First, I would like to give you a simple step-by-step on how to suck dick.
Step 1.
Start by getting in a comfortable position where your mouth can easily access your partner’s dick.
Step 2.
Start using your hands to get his dick hard, or you can get it hard by placing the dick in your mouth and slowly sucking.
Step 3.
Suck the dick and move your hand forward and backward for extra stimulation. Use your tongue to lick the dick while you suck it.
Tip 1. Stay Safe
Although sucking dick is not penetrative sex, STIs are easily contracted. Have an open discussion about previous partners and ask for an STI test. If no clean STI test is provided, use a condom. There are flavored ones that will make sucking dick better.
Tip 2. Avoid Teeth
Teeth can hurt your partner when you are not careful, especially if your partner’s dick is big. Wrap your lips over your teeth to create a protective barrier between your teeth and their penis.
Tip 3. Apply Sex Toys
I know what you are thinking. How can we incorporate sex toys into oral? While giving a blowjob, you can place the penis tightly against the cheek inside your mouth. Then, place the vibrator against your cheek, and your partner will feel the vibration and have extra stimulation. You can also add a vibrating cock ring at the start of the shaft for extra pleasure.
Tip 4. Use Hands
A blowjob has no rules, so it does not mean you can not use your hands while giving one. Place your hands on his shaft and move your hands and head simultaneously. This will provide more stimulation and allow you to use your hands to twist.
Tip 5. Deep Throat Practice
If you aim to do deep throat while giving a blowjob, ensure you know how to deep throat and if your body can handle it. Practice using a dildo. Go slow, and do not go too fast your first time.
Tip 6. Show Your Excitement
When giving a blow job, many do not know what to do or say other than suck. But your partner would thrive off of enthusiasm from you. Tell him how much you like sucking his dig and how good it tastes. Make sure you tell him that you like what you are doing. If he feels you are not into it, he might not enjoy it as much.
Tip 7. Discuss the Orgasm
Many of us love swallowing cum, but thousands might feel sick when cum is in their mouth. Have an open discussion about what you like to do when he ejaculates. If you decide to pull out, he can warn you when he is about to cum, and you can finish off using your hands. If you want to swallow, still have him give you a warning so you can be prepared. Nothing kills the mood like a spontaneous ejaculation.
Tip 8. Use Your Tongue on the Tip of the Penis
The head of a penis is rather sensitive than the shaft. When starting a blowjob, use your tongue to softly stroke the penis head. Move your tongue around the head to stimulate all over, begin softly sucking just the head before moving to the shaft, and continue to use your tongue on the head while sucking.
Tip 9. Do Not Forget the Erogenous Zones
Erogenous zones are very sensitive areas and often, when touched, give sexual pleasure. Make sure to stroke, touch, and play with your partner’s erogenous zones to achieve the optimal orgasm. Many forget about these zones and only focus on the penis but believe me when I say that stimulating these zones while busy will be the best thing you do.
Tip 10. Balls
Play with the balls. Many people do not incorporate balls into a blowjob. While sucking the dick, cup the balls and play with them while slowly stroking them. You can also lick and suck them softly for extra stimulation. Many like to suck the balls and dick simultaneously, but not all can.
Will You Try the Dick-Sucking Tips?
All men have different bodies, just like women. You can not compare a blowjob you have seen in porn to the one you are performing. When you give blowjobs, remember that everything you do impacts your sexual health.
Blowjobs are amazing, but you must know how to suck a penis. After this feature, you have some of the best tips for sucking cock. Have a try.
Remember to keep good hygiene. A foul odor can have a terrible effect on a blowjob experience.